NO TEA NO SHADE: ARISE, BITCH

I recently made a quote which seems to be extremely true and many agreed with it. And before you read on, this will be a very short post in terms of words. The quote goes like this ;

"I am a good person with good intentions but my mouth (verbally), now that's a different story" - Pek, Joseph - 2012.

People around me who knows me well (don't think many people do) would know that I can pack like a thousand vials of venom in my mouth and the moment I let my loose cannon out, it might scratch a feeling or two. Thing is, I wish the best (sometimes) and would like to see people do well or be happy (kinda sound like a pageant contestant talking, I know...lame) but I don't usually express these thoughts verbally. Some people get offended when people call the a bitch though in modern society of today, no one bothers that much anymore but I, for one am not offended. Infact, I think its a self-taught gift for one to be called a bitch. If you feel its insulting, I feel it is an approval of me being who I am (not that I need).

A word of advice though, don't be a back-stabbing bitch. Those are called the common-bitch. Those are not bitches that people like or stand-able. I don't normally back stab unless I've been back stabbed. Most of the time, I BITCH-STAB. What is bitch stab? Well, unlike back stabbing where you talk bad about the person behind their back, you just say it to the person's face or sorta say it but in a subtle way. Bitch stabbing if done and practiced right, it can make the other party more conscious of their flaws or those little bits that they do that annoys the hell out of you. Bitch-stabbing is best served with a pinch of sarcasm. Bitching and Sarcasm are like a pair made in bitch-heaven.

I've been called a bitch countless of times and to me, its just a self-taught-self-launched defensive mechanism to protect whats underneath all that. So, if I'm your friend and if I've ever scratch your feelings through my bitching then I am sorry but being nice just doesn't cut it anymore. Like Tata Young once said, '"my mouth never takes a holiday" and a more recent one where Gaga said, "I'm a free bitch". Beware and unleash the bitch in you. BITCH-OUT xoxo.